sugar frosted

June 04, 2003 | 11:48 pm

(hahah, dave letterman just described donald trump's hair as as "an architectural wonder" hahahha.... just to random....)

so i just left a note for a girl on diaryland who has just broken up with her boyfriend. i know she really had fallen for him, so she's really sad right now. since i can completely understand where she's coming from, i left her this note, and i realized i need to take my own advice. i also realized that i learned A LOT from, um, well, from that crap i went through last year.... this is what i wrote to her, and i completely believe this is true:

"aww, i'm soooooo sorry! i just want to give you a hug right now. i know exactly how you feel... just imagining he's there and everything's the way it used to be. but unfortunately, it never will be the way it was. but you know what? that's a good thing. i know you may not believe that, but you'll learn a lot from this relationship and you will learn a lot about yourself. and then when you find the guy you're really, truly supposed to be with, everything will seem easy and perfect and wonderful. you'll never have doubt, and you might have pain and sadness sometimes, but you'll know without a doubt, that he is meant for you. and i hate to tell you, but vince just wasn't the one. i know i don't know you, and you might think i'm wrong, but, just from reading your thoughts and feelings about him and his actions, as much as you want him to be the one, he wasn't. i'm sure there are many things about him that you think are just perfect... well, the REAL guy for you will have all those perfect qualities and so many more than you ever thought anyone could have. ok, i think i'm done now :) just know you WILL be able to move on. it might take a long time, but you WILL be ok. i promise you. *HUGGGGGGG* "

go give her hugs...

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